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I have broken up with my GF for about 4 months but up til now i still feel very lonely and depressed. I quit my job for 7 years and now i feel god damn sorry for myself for having lost my girlfriend and my job. I just feel very lost. I feel so useless and have been drinking myself to death but i just cannot seem to get over the relationship. Do i have a problem?
Can somebody pls tell me what to do? I really feel miserable and feel so like crazy. Any place i can turn to??? pls somebody help me???
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Are you flipping the papers, knocking on doors, wearing a tie and suit and looking for a job 8 to 10 hours a day? If you are doing all of that then no problem. It is only a matter of time before you find employment.
Assuming your girlfriend returns to you tomorrow but 3 months down the road you are still drinking and still jobless, broke and useless, what happens then?
It won't be long before she starts wondering, "Where the fuck is this man going in his life?"
Then she leaves you again.
Wanting her back is fine when you are making a million bucks a year, but you have no fighting chance if you are broke and still acting like a wastrel.
Get your act together pal. No money, no honey.
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Hey buddy
No worries , this is part & parcel of life .
Transistion period la ...take it easy buddy
Not the end of the world .
Especially .... woman the main reason .
Ok ok .... listen , if u don't break off with this ex-girlfriend , how do u know u can't get another better one ?
If u don't quit this job , how do u know u can't get a better prospect job ?
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First things first, it isn't the end of the world. If you have faith in yourself, both love and career can be re-built again. There are jobs available, though it may not be what you fancy. But this isn't the time to be picky.
Take up any part-time assignment to keep the cash flowing. Minimize your expenses to stay afloat longer.
Cut out the drinking. When you're sober the next day, things would still be the same as yesterday.
Know that you are not the only one who is down and out. Many people have been through similar sort of misery in their lives. Bear the will to carry on living, and know that you will succeed soon.
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
I wonder wat is funding ur drinking and tummy the past 7yrs? Dun u think itis kinda lame to push the blame onto a ger leaving u?
Even the uneducated auntie, uncle in their 50s have no problem landing a job. Why does a fit man in his prime age have problem getting one?
I need not carry on.
I think he meant his JOB OF 7 YEARS. Not has not worked for the past 7 years.
Work. Whatever also can, prefably a company with a ladder to climb. Start your own business, using the experience in field you had from the past 7 years. Or do a half day taxi.
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Originally posted by moletan2003:
I have broken up with my GF for about 4 months but up til now i still feel very lonely and depressed. I quit my job for 7 years and now i feel god damn sorry for myself for having lost my girlfriend and my job. I just feel very lost. I feel so useless and have been drinking myself to death but i just cannot seem to get over the relationship. Do i have a problem?
Can somebody pls tell me what to do? I really feel miserable and feel so like crazy. Any place i can turn to??? pls somebody help me???
You should thanks god that she is not yet married to you. Going throught the divorce process is no joke! First, get yourself a job, there are many good n nice girls in the society waiting for your love.
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i'd say first thing, learn to love yourself. if you aint got it, there's absolutely no motivation for whatever jigglepoo shit you wanna do. if you are out of job for 7 years, i suggest you get a simple job first that doesnt require much qualifications or too brain demanding. you gotta pick yourself up man. no one's living for you. it's just you in this world man. all the best.
Edited by ghast. 18 Jun `08, 2:50PM
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