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Feels like I'm incapable of getting guys' respect
I'm not chio, I do not deny it -- but why must guys always judge by looks?
Recently got told by a guy that he never took 'our relationship' (if you can call it a relationship) seriously and that he was just using it to pass time 'cause he was bored.What's wrong with guys these days? :(
Or is it just me?
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Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:
Feels like I'm incapable of getting guys' respect
I'm not chio, I do not deny it -- but why must guys always judge by looks?
Recently got told by a guy that he never took 'our relationship' (if you can call it a relationship) seriously and that he was just using it to pass time 'cause he was bored.What's wrong with guys these days? :(
Or is it just me?
Is the guy Hansome anot? :D
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Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:
Feels like I'm incapable of getting guys' respect
I'm not chio, I do not deny it -- but why must guys always judge by looks?
Recently got told by a guy that he never took 'our relationship' (if you can call it a relationship) seriously and that he was just using it to pass time 'cause he was bored.What's wrong with guys these days? :(
Or is it just me?
u met the wrong ones... u dun need to b reali chio.. gals jz need to know how to bring out their best can liao... dun take previous failure too hard.... go join the singles club here..
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Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:
Feels like I'm incapable of getting guys' respect
I'm not chio, I do not deny it -- but why must guys always judge by looks?
Recently got told by a guy that he never took 'our relationship' (if you can call it a relationship) seriously and that he was just using it to pass time 'cause he was bored.What's wrong with guys these days? :(
Or is it just me?
I do not deny that you are at an "initial" disadvantage with the guys if you are not chio. But how is your character? If you are kind-hearted and compassionate, then your inner beauty will shine through, and you will radiate beauty.I have met this not-so-beautiful girl (whom I privately joked with my friends that her looks will make my eyes bleed), but over time I realize that she is a very kind-hearted, compassionate girl who is also stoic about her appearance... She radiated a type of attractiveness that is hard to describe... an intangible but unlikely combination of frailty, vulnerability, strength and goodness that makes me want to look at her, be close to her, to protect her and the goodness within her... as well as to bask in her kindness and compassion.
Edited by Beyond Religion 18 Aug `08, 11:09AM
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well, most guys are more visual so we do judge by looks to a certain extent. But all that's only the first impression, after that the characters, behaviour etc comes into play. Don't get dishearten too, you'll meet the right one i hope. Good Luck =) Btw, your that friend is really an asshole to have said those stuff to you.
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TS, I think u r wrong. I do not deny that looks are wat make the first impressions. What is inside is still the factor that decides it all. A girl may not have good looks but with a well groomed feminine charm inside, she will still be attractive. However, it does take time for the guy to notice it too.
I've met gorgeous girls be4 who made my heart thump so hard. But damn, the moment they open their mouths, they were hurling vulgarities everywhere.
Hope u get what I'm trying to put across.
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Originally posted by swiftydonuts:
TS, I think u r wrong. I do not deny that looks are wat make the first impressions. What is inside is still the factor that decides it all. A girl may not have good looks but with a well groomed feminine charm inside, she will still be attractive. However, it does take time for the guy to notice it too.
I've met gorgeous girls be4 who made my heart thump so hard. But damn, the moment they open their mouths, they were hurling vulgarities everywhere.
Hope u get what I'm trying to put across.
totally agree. good looks opens the first door, the rest is dependant on what both looking for in the r/s.
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da cheese freak,
You can quit your self pity.
If looks is so the pre-requisite to mating.
Then how come you see average looking couples getting married ?
Even below average ones get hitched and have their own family.
Your guy is obviously out to play. And you're just a convenient victim. Did you throw yourself at him ?
Go wait for someone else.. who is actually ready for a serious relationship.. there's tons out there.
Edited by jojobeach 18 Aug `08, 12:09PM
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