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i got this very good friend of mine, and this clique of mine...
this very good friend is a girl and the clique are all boys... i am a boy too of cuz.. the boys in my clique are all very playful and rough, as such they didnt care much bout body contact between two opposite sex and i am always the spectator as i respect the girls a lot...
however, being the spectator sux... i see my not so close female friends kena body contact already see le bu shuang lidat... then is see my very good female friend like kena body contact i like very kan bu guo...
one day i decided to talk this out with my good female friend... as explained here... it ended off with she laughing at me and said that i think too much...
well... to be more specific, body contact as in body bang body side by side... sometimes even the front...
and we are all sec sch students..
ppl, pls answer my few questions...
is this body bang body contact counted as pervertic or wat?
is there anyway to body contact a girl in a more respectful way? as i realise that body contact can mean lotta things...
also, issit right for me to talk this out with my very good friend?
most importantly, how to react when u see a friend of urs having too overboard body contact with ur female friend?
Thanks a lot for help.
IA
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imagine a guy and a girl sit or stand side by side...
then the guy go bang over... having the side fully in contact...
well at the start it sounds friendly... but later on it is like quite sexually related?
and how to have body contact with girls while having respects for girl (as in normal friends)?
and how to react (as mentioned in first post)?
IA
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eh... i dun mind u saying that... as i feel the same way sadly but true...
not to the extend of fuck but keep flirting... ARGH!!
and answer my other questions?
how to react to such cases or issit really just cant do much?
how to have body contact with girl without being pervertic yet having respect for the girl...?
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Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:
eh... i dun mind u saying that... as i feel the same way sadly but true...
not to the extend of fuck but keep flirting... ARGH!!
and answer my other questions?
how to react to such cases or issit really just cant do much?
how to have body contact with girl without being pervertic yet having respect for the girl...?
i think it's u think too much la..
unless u like the gal or smth
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ic... hmm how i hope i really think too much... really dun wanna see my friend as that lowdown...
and pls answer my questions... how to have body contact with girl without being pervertic yet having respect for the girl (normal friend)?
and i hope i am not too caring for a normal friend rather than a couple yeah?
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Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:
i dun like anyone and i dun wanna touch her...
we have been friends for around 2 yrs and i only did touched her hair at most...
well... it looks like i shouldnt care so much?
aw... hate seeing such things...:(
IA
just tell her to be aware... of playing gone out of hand... whether she want to be touched/enjoyed being touched... then touch...
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well, if the girls dont mind. Respect the girls la....
I also have friends that like.... and friends who dont like... some girls are just more outgoing, they dont mind play along with u....
Obviously not to the extend touch tights, or grab their tits..... maybe some pulling of hand, touching of hand? Pulling of hair, and some poking at the waist area? It's perfectly fine if the girl is comfortable...
Varies from girls also.... You cannot count them as "low-down" , they are just more "out-going"... Then the guys ? Why the start doing all this? B@stard? NO? Or just playful? If they do not play with the girls, other clique of guys will play too?
I personally also dont like such things, but if both side is okay. It's best to keep your mouth shut, unless it's too over. Define too over? You decide...
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Originally posted by BangHong:
well, if the girls dont mind. Respect the girls la....
I also have friends that like.... and friends who dont like... some girls are just more outgoing, they dont mind play along with u....
Obviously not to the extend touch tights, or grab their tits..... maybe some pulling of hand, touching of hand? Pulling of hair, and some poking at the waist area? It's perfectly fine if the girl is comfortable...
Varies from girls also.... You cannot count them as "low-down" , they are just more "out-going"... Then the guys ? Why the start doing all this? B@stard? NO? Or just playful? If they do not play with the girls, other clique of guys will play too?
I personally also dont like such things, but if both side is okay. It's best to keep your mouth shut, unless it's too over. Define too over? You decide...
wow thanks lots!
i didnt noe such things are alright... well... i am too young to judge these all i guess...
learnt so much...
and ur post really helped me lots thanks!
and thanks all!
IA
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